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第29章爱上你的工作（14）
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2.TosummarizewhatIhavesaid：Aimfhest，erabarroo..
tosummarize：简而言之
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人生没有错误，只有教训
ThereAreNoMistakes，OnlyLessons
佚名Anonymous
Humangroroentation，trialaimatelyleadingtowisdoEachtimeyouchoosetotrustyourselfaion，youeverquitebehowthesituationwillturnout.Sometimesyouarevictorious，aimesyoubeedisillusiohefailedexperiments，however，arenolessvaluablethahatultimatelyprovesuccessful；infact，youusuallylearnmorefromyourperceived“failures”
thanyoudofromyourperceived“successes”
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Ifyouhavemadeeristake，orfailedtoliveuptoyourowions，youwillmostlikelyputupabarrierbetweenyouressehepartofyouthatistheallegedwrong-doer.However，pergpastaistakesimpliesguiltaisnotpossibletolearnanythingmeaningfulwhileyedinblaming.Therefivenessisrequiredwhenyingyourself.
Fiveheactaioherearefourkindsiveness：
&isbeginnerfivenessforyourself.
Thesedivenessisbeginnerfivenessforanother.
&hirdkindivenessisadvancedfivenessofyourself.Thisisforseriressions，theonesyoucarrywithdeepshame.Whenyoudosomethingthatviolatesyourowhics，youcreateachasmbetweenyourstandardsandyouractualbehavior.Insuchacase，youoworkveryhardatfyourselfforthesedeedssothatyoucallclosethisdrealigpartofyourself.Thisdoesyoushouldrushtiveyourselfororremorse；butwallowinginthesefeelingsforaprotraeishy，andpunishingyourselfexcessivelywilloesabiggergapbetweenyouahics.
&andperhapsmostdiffieistheadvancedfivenessofasometimeofourlife，youmayhavebeenseverelywrobyaosuchadegreethatfivenessseemsimpossible.However，harbreseaasiesorappedinvictimhood.Undersuchace，youshouldforceyourselftoseethebiggerpicture，bysodoing，youwillbeabletoshiftthefocusawayfromtheangera.Itisiveydoihememory.Whenyouallyreleasethesituation，youmayetoseeitasanecessarypartrowth.
人的成长是一个不断尝试、不断经历失误、又不断获得新知的过程。
每次，当你信心十足，准备采取行动时，对于会有什么样的结果发生，你无从知晓——或许成功，或许失败。
然而，失败并不意味着毫无价值。
事实上，我们往往能从失败中学到更多的东西。
假如你犯了一个错误，或是未达到自己所期望的标准，你很可能会在真我与所谓的犯错者之间构筑一道壁垒。
然而，对以往的行为全盘否定，势必会让你感到内疚、自责。
深陷其中，你就不可能从中汲取有益的东西。
因此，过分苛求自己时，最需要的就是自我宽恕。
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